Sometimes My Little Sister Knows Best

One time, I was having a discussion with my then 12-year old sister about books and reading and coming up with some titles that I thought she might enjoy.

She flipped out and stomped out of the room yelling for me not to tell her what to read before slamming her door.

It’s one of my favourite memories.

These days we’re much more likely to trade recommendations. Most of the time these solicit an eye roll from me. Since my sister is 17 she’s much more likely to be found reading YA fiction than anything. She’s the reason I read Twilight. It took years for me to recover from that enough to get started on The Hunger Games. Which led, very indirectly, to Divergent. Last week she leant me The Fault in Our Stars and then I ended up buying Fangirl on her recommendation.

She is now a part of a very select group of people who can recommend books to me.


I read The Fault in Our Stars in the car on our way to our long weekend retreat. I read almost straight through, right until the sketchy ending when it got too dark and I wanted to read privately anyway because I knew this was going to get messy.

I’m the last human to read this book right? So I don’t need to tell you that The Fault in Our Stars is about Hazel Grace Lancaster and her fight against terminal cancer? That her mom forces her to go to support group that she hates but which is where she meets (the amazingly named) Augustus Waters?  And then he reads this book that she is obsessed with and he becomes equally obsessed so he uses his Wish (through a Make-A-Wish type foundation) to take her to Amsterdam to find out what happens to the characters in the book because it just abruptly ends?

And everything is so wonderful and great, aside from the whole cancer thing, and then everything falls apart and you’re left sobbing quietly in a room away from other people because you’re an unholy mess of snot? You all already know that stuff?

Right. So I was prepared for sadness but I wasn’t prepared for how much. Or for how thoughtful and intelligent Hazel and Augustus both are. The book is brilliant and poetic and filled with so much hope despite the devastating ending. I found myself thinking about teenagers in a whole new way. I mean, if they are all losing their minds for this beautifully eloquent book, then they will probably all be OK in the end right?

So after using Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets and The Murder of Roger Ackroyd (Agatha Christie is always called for on long weekends) to get back my book equilibrium, I was ready for Rainbow Rowell’s Fangirl.


Cath and Wren are twin sisters who have always shared everything, including a deep and abiding love of the Simon Snow books. Each is active in the Simon Snow fan fiction world. But when they go off to college and Wren decides that they need to have other roommates so that they can get out in the world more, Cath is left to her own devices for the first time. She ends up rooming with Reagan who makes no secret of the fact that she doesn’t want a roommate and Cath retreats further and further away from the real world in favour of the fictional world of Simon Snow.

But life has a way of getting in the way despite all our best efforts doesn’t it? Cath can’t help but notice her sister seems to be drinking a lot and her dad doesn’t seem right when she talks to him on the phone and the higher level fiction writing class she asked to take part in doesn’t seem to be going the way she thought it would.

That’s before we even get to the boys in Cath’s life or the estranged mom.

I loved it. I was completely swept away by Rowell’s charming characters. Here’s another author that knows how to channel the teenaged voice but in a way that doesn’t diminish what they feel or force grown up emotions on them. Cath is very nearly a full person, figuring out how it all pieces together in the end. It’s no wonder legions of young people love this author – she gets them.

I’m told that Eleanor and Park is even better. For now, my sister wants to borrow Fangirl to read it again.

15 thoughts on “Sometimes My Little Sister Knows Best

  1. I read The Fault in Our Stars at a bad time…either I was too busy or too wrapped in hype, cause it just didn’t do it for me. But the movie is looking very promising and our girl from the Divergent movie is playing Hazel!

    I just bought Eleanor & Park, but have yet to read it. I was supposed to meet Rainbow Rowell in Philly in January, but never made it there cause of a snowstorm 😦

    • I definitely think book hype can ruin a reading experience so that’s unfortunate! I was completely ready to hate on this book and look what happened! That really sucks about Rainbow Rowell and the snowstorm!

  2. I don’t read any YA lit, but I am attracted to Rainbow Rowell. I think i’d go for FanGirl just because of the topic. And I’ve been staying far away from The Fault in Our Stars because it is about a girl with cancer. People say it’s not depressing, but …

  3. Anything by John Green is fabulous, in my opinion, but TFIOS is the most poignant by far. “Unholy mess of snot” is right, I actually had to take an antihistamine afterwards to reduce my eye puffiness. My other fave of his is An Abundance of Katherines.
    I’ve been wanting to read Rowell, but somehow couldn’t quite get into E&P, but Fangirl seems more up my alley, so on your recommendation I’ll give it a try. Thank you and sorry for your snot 🙂 -Tania

  4. It’s never too late to read a great book. Also never to late to read good quality YA. I haven’t yet read Fangirl, but I highly recommend Eleanor & Park. 4 stars.

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